Joyful Excellence Mastermind (JEM) 

Exercise What Matters MOST

Mental Fitness for Optimal Performance

in Challenging Times 


Hardwiring Courage, Resilience, Contribution & Joy 

Real Talk, Real Tools & Real Results. 

Learn more

Joyful Excellence Mastermind (JEM) 

Exercise What Matters MOST

Mental Fitness for Optimal Performance

in Challenging Times 


Hardwiring Courage, Resilience, Contribution & Joy 

Real Talk, Real Tools & Real Results. 

Learn more

Do you feel...

 Stressed and overwhelmed, perhaps even despite your success?

 Disconnected from yourself, your passion, and your loved ones?

 Like you're just going through the motions, or like life is full of burden?

 Trapped in the cycle of achievement but never feeling “enough”?

 Stuck in patterns that drain your energy and joy?

 Perhaps skeptical of "therapy" or "coaching grifts" (for good reasons) but still aware that mentorship and communal support are keys to thriving?  

If so, you're in the right place.

Yes, I can relate

Do you feel...

 Stressed and overwhelmed, perhaps even despite your success?

 Disconnected from yourself, your passion, and your loved ones?

 Like you're just going through the motions, or like life is full of burden?

 Trapped in the cycle of achievement but never feeling “enough”?

 Stuck in patterns that drain your energy and joy?

 Perhaps skeptical of "therapy" or "coaching grifts" (for good reasons) but still aware that mentorship and communal support are keys to thriving?  

If so, you're in the right place.

Yup, that's me

Together We thrive


Most high-achievers experience imposter syndrome, stress, and burnout at some point in their careers. Many feel disconnected from a deep sense of meaning and purpose, laden with obligations, and craving for freedom and joy. While a lot of us feel this way, it doesn’t have to be your reality. Exercising what matters most makes common sense.

If you would go to the gym to grow your muscles, how much better could it be to join a JEM so you can raise the bar that benefits ALL - Awareness Loving Life?

In JEM you can:

Train your brain to experience joy, vitality, and inner peace—all while maintaining success in the various domains of your life.

Explore the best of what's possible from therapy, coaching, and optimal performance research.

Leave out what is ineffective and inauthentic from the common approaches to mental health and happiness that clearly aren't working for most.

Use a cohesive A-Z system with maps, tools, and instructions.

Enjoy a community where health, happiness, and thriving are contagious.

In JEM you can:

Train your brain to experience joy, vitality, and inner peace—all while maintaining success in the various domains of your life.

Explore the best of what's possible from therapy, coaching, and optimal performance research.

Leave out what is ineffective and inauthentic from the common approaches to mental health and happiness that clearly aren't working for most.

Use a cohesive A-Z system with maps, tools, and instructions.

Enjoy a community where health, happiness, and thriving are contagious.

You can become part of a powerful network of high achievers who are going from reactive to creative, from surviving to thriving, from normal to natural, from where you are to Joyful Excellence by Design.

 

Why I Created JEM

Over the years, I’ve seen countless professionals, myself included, struggle with stress, burnout, marriage and family problems, and overall discontent - despite their outward success.

They wanted more, but traditional therapy, self-help podcasts, and coaching weren’t cutting it.

That’s why I created JEM

— to provide a holistic, sustainable approach to joyful excellence.


As someone who’s walked this path, I understand firsthand the struggles of high-achievers who feel overwhelmed with all the balls we juggle, especially when trying to raise a health family. I created JEM to give people practical tools to not just cope with their problems, but to outgrow them with the most practical, efficient, effective tools that produce the greatest return on investment. 

JEM is a Community Mental Fitness Membership—designed for those who want more than just a coping mechanism or place to vent. We ask, why just cope with suffering, when we can end it?

Underneath ALL of our desires for "success" is a State of Being. We want the relationship to feel love, we want the promotion to feel proud, we want our kids to thrive to feel joy, we want more money to feel safe or free, we want a nice vacation to feel relaxed and to have fun, we cant a new job to feel inspired. Our State of Being is the BOTTOM LINE. 

In JEM we put the ends, FIRST. We use the best maps, tools, and intructions available to hardwire the States of Being we Value & Choose and by putting first things first, we optimize everything else. By becoming HAPPY we become better lovers, we sleep better, we have more energy, we feel more inspired, our immunse system works better, we become better parents, we are more creative and more liklely to land that promotion, we work better with others, we see more clearly, we feel more optimistic and confident, etc. 

Exercising what matters most is good for everything and bad for nothing.

Mental health challenges are at an all-time high, and despite progress in de-stigmatization, things are getting worse not better. We can not rely on "getting happy" once we get the right amount of money, or or find the perfect partner. We are either waiting, or creating and if we are waiting we will be waiting forever. Most people don't realize that happiness is a skill, and like any skill it can (and must) be cultivated.  

We need something more proactive, more effective, and more fun. This is where JEM comes in: a space where high-achievers gather to explore, discover, learn, grow, and create the best possible future for ourselves, for our kids, for our communities, for ALL. 

I'm Ready to Join!

3 Key Takeaways from JEM

Master Your Mind, elevate your emotions


Learn how to manage stress, quiet your inner critic, cultivate resilience, and generate JOY for no reason. 

Deepen Your Relationships


Build genuine connections and create harmony in your personal and professional life.

Unlock Your True Potential


Align with your purpose, boost your energy, and start thriving instead of just surviving.

Meet Your Coach


I'm Mike 

(Michael Boyle, LMFT, CDBT)

I am a licensed psychotherapist and optimal performance coach, specializing in "real deal" emotional intelligence, and Embodied Aliveness Trauma Transformation (EATT). I help people to metabolize distress and difficulty, to fuel lives worth loving, in practical, methodical ways combining heart, humor, and grit. 

In August of 2024, I learned I had a gaping hole in the center of my chest that had been wreaking havoc on my body and mind for more than 2 decades. For more than half of my life, I had a half-functioning lung, a paralyzed diaphragm, and my liver was stuck in this hole and becoming calcified from loss of blood flow. 

My wife and 3 children had never even known me without this debilitating medical condition. Yet, I was a clinical director of various mental health programs, I founded a behavioral health center that still serves thousands of families to this day. I started my own business and moved my family from New Mexico to Mexico to learn about our roots and become bilingual before returning to the Boston area, where I grew up, for expert medical care and the best of the best educational, cultural, and athletic opportunities for my kids. 

Meet Your Coach

I'm Mike 


I’ve dedicated my career to helping high-achievers find true fulfillment without sacrificing their success. 

With a background in [relevant experience], I combine mindset coaching, neuroscience-backed strategies, and real-world applications to create lasting transformation.

For 24 years my choice was to either become an expert at thriving even though tough stuff happens or to suffer and fail to be present for my family, career, community, and a life of joy, meaning, purpose, and contribution. 

Thankfully, through that discovery in the summer of '24, I was able to undergo a life-saving surgery that now enables me to fully taste the fruits of my almost obsessive efforts to learn and implement every practical tool I could find from inside and outside the box for healing and thriving. 

Renewed and inspired, I created JEM so you could benefit from the most extensive, A-Z system for thiving and healing you can find. But I also have learned along the way, that it's not just what we know, it's what we do, who we do it with, and why we do it that makes all the difference. 

We are "tribal" people and together we thrive.

So, not only does it work better to explore, discover, learn, grow, and create in a communal setting, it's more fun. And, when we do it not just for ourselves, but for others, it matters MOST.

Plus, since you likely don't have a 24-year-old strange, mysterious injury completely compromising your functioning, it will likely work a lot better, easier, and faster for you than it ever did for me! 

But, even if you are in the midst of one of life's inevitable "Sacred Challenges", I know these practical maps, tools, and instructions combined with this wholehearted community will help you thrive... and because we are all connected, that will help not only your family, friends, and community, but me, too. Thank you!

Love to ALL,
Together we thrive!
-Mike 

Transformations You Can Expect

Within just 90 days, you can expect to experience three key life-changing transformations:

Transformations You Can Expect

Within just 90 days, you can expect to experience three key life-changing transformations:

Unshakable Confidence & Emotional Mastery


Say goodbye to self-doubt and imposter syndrome. Learn how to quiet your inner critic, turn distress into eustress, and develop a sense of meaning, purpose, and values that support your success in every aspect of life. You’ll feel centered, resourceful & resilient even if, aside from, and especially when challenges happen.

Deep & Fulfilling Relationships


Strengthen your personal and professional relationships by learning effective communication and emotional intelligence skills. Experience deeper connections, break free from toxic patterns, and cultivate relationships that bring joy, love, and mutual growth. Enjoy a feeling of 'togetherness' - the bedrock of health and happiness.

Aligned Success & Sustainable Energy


No more burnout. Discover how to align your career, personal goals, and daily habits with your core values. You will sleep deeply, and gain the energy, clarity, and focus you need to thrive while feeling balanced and fulfilled. Imagine waking up every morning feeling energized, connected to your purpose, and confident in your choices.

Sounds good, but how to DO it?

What Our Clients Say

Spencer Young, Esq.

"I am a civil rights attorney, husband, and father.  I took Mr. Boyle's "Mojo Maker" class for three months. It has substantially improved my life in all arenas, personal and professional. I'm waking up thinking positive thoughts, drinking more water, eating healthier, exercising more, using my time more wisely, taking on stressful events with more joy and zeal, and forgiving myself when I make mistakes." Listen to a VM he left his sister about my course...

 

Dora & Dwayne

These two young professionals, one a banker and the other a social worker, came dealing with the challenges of busy lives, a mixed-race marriage, in-law issues, trauma histories, and the impact their arguing and separation was having on their young daughter. Listen for yourself below what they had to say about The Relating Renaissance Program. Spoiler alert: the benefits to their daughter is my favorite part! Fellas, Dwayne was skeptical too! ;) 

 

Patti Hall 

Patti is dear to my heart. This woman has overcome so much. So when tells me, "Michael, the gift you are offering is indicative of the human you are. Your intentions are pure and come from a deep understanding of how we are in charge of our thoughts, feelings, and reactions to the world around us" I blush with pride and joy for what she has accomplished. Listen to what she has to say below... "It's never too late!" And if you only knew what she's been through. 

 
 
 

Introducing JEM - Joyful Excellence Mastermind


A transformational coaching experience designed for ambitious individuals who want to thrive—without burnout.

 

Introducing JEM - Joyful Excellence Mastermind


A transformational community experience designed for ambitious individuals who want to thrive—without burnout. We can do more than talk about it.

 

Who It’s For

JEM is designed for ambitious entrepreneurs, leaders, and high-achievers who are ready for change. If you’ve checked all the boxes of success but still feel something is missing, this program is for you. It’s for individuals committed to investing in their well-being, personal growth, and happiness. Join now and experience the clarity, balance, and fulfillment you’ve been seeking.

JEM welcomes ALL, but is also exclusive for those who:


  • Want mental fitness And Optimal Performance even and especially in the face of challenging times.
  •  Understand the value of the village and long for community, accountability, cross-pollination and support. 
  •  Prefer a practical, action-oriented, solution-focused approach. 
  •  Appreciate the value of cost sharing and a community model that is more affordable and more effective than typical therapy or grifting coaches. 
  •  Respect science and have an open mind towards alternative approaches that have been tried and true. 
  • Don't want to break the bank to get the support and resources you need to thrive and are also willing to put skin in the game to invest in what matters most. 
  •  Can tell that something about our current collective approach to health and happiness is not working and perhaps even getting worse. 
  •  Understand that true happiness comes from creating and contributing and is more about WE than "me." 
  •  Like flexible options, being able to go at your own pace, having a nearly limitless library of transformational information and practical tools all in one place, combined with lots of chances for live drop-in classes and interactive communal support.
  • Are willing to be encouraging and kind community members who lift others up, and allow themselves to be lifted. 

Program Outline

While the curriculum is constantly evolving, here’s what you can expect:

Weekly Live Calls 

  • Get direct access to expert coaching, personalized guidance, and interactive discussions that address your specific challenges. These calls help reinforce lessons, provide clarity, and keep you accountable. 

A Variety of Live Classes

Like a gym offering Zumba or Spin, we offer numerous opportunities for you to thrive and heal, such as: 

  • VB - Vital Breathwork
  • SI - Stress Inoculation
  • RR - the Relating Renaissance for couples
  • FX - Family Life Excellence
  • YN - Yoga Nidra for deep rest
  • EM - Energy of Mind tools 
  • EA - Embodied Aliveness Trauma Transformation (EATT)
  • NB - Nutritional Balance
  • MM - Meditation Mastery 
  • PR - Philosophy Rants! 
  • QA - Open Q & A Sessions

The ATA Curriculum

  • A structured, yet flexible learning experience covering mindset mastery, emotional resilience, and personal transformation.
  • This curriculum is continuously updated to include the most effective strategies for achieving joyful excellence. Most people think we need to heal in order to thrive, but we really need to thrive in order to heal.
  • This curriculum will provide you the most comprehensive, cohesive, transformational information you can find so you can go at your own pace while still having opportunities to ask questions and get live, personal guidance through our various classes and workshops. 

 Exclusive Online Community

  • A private, off-social-media space where like-minded individuals connect, share insights, and support each other on their transformation journeys. You’ll never feel alone in this process.

 Tailored Content & Workshops

  • Got a specific challenge or need additional resources? Request specialized workshops and content that directly address your concerns, ensuring a highly customized experience.

When You Join JEM, You Will Feel…

Confident and Courageous

Gain the clarity to make bold choices, set boundaries, and step into your true potential. You’ll develop a mindset that allows you to thrive in every aspect of your life, replacing self-doubt with unshakable self-belief.

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Free from Overwhelm 

Master proven techniques to manage stress, regain control of your time, and create balance between your work and personal life. Experience more energy, focus, motivation, and Joy every day. Otherwise, what's the point?

I'm curious

Deeply Connected 

Come to know who you are and why you are here, You will unmask counterfeit personality structures that have lead you to struggle so  that you can explore, discover, learn, grow and create a life worth loving.

Put me on the list

When You Join JEM, You Will Feel…

Confident and Courageous

Gain the clarity to make bold choices, set boundaries, and step into your true potential. You’ll develop a mindset that allows you to thrive in every aspect of your life, replacing self-doubt with unshakable self-belief.

Take Action

Free from Overwhelm 

Master proven techniques to manage stress, regain control of your time, and create balance between your work and personal life. Experience more energy, focus, motivation, and Joy every day. Otherwise, what's the point?

I'm curious

Deeply Connected 

Come to know who you are and why you are here, You will unmask counterfeit personality structures that have lead you to struggle so  that you can explore, discover, learn, grow and create a life worth loving.

Put me on the list

Ready to Join?

Here’s What You Get:

Ready to Join?

Here’s What You Get:

 Variety of Live Classes for Thriving and Healing

 Full Access to the Growing ATA Curriculum

 Exclusive Private Online Community

 Email Support & Insights

 Tailored Workshops & Resources

 Options for 1-1 training and mentorship

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PRICING & PAYMENT OPTIONS

PRICING & PAYMENT OPTIONS

$997 + $197/mo

MONTHLY (for 12 months)

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$997 + $197/mo

MONTHLY (for 12 months)

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Money-Back Guarantee

We believe in the transformative power of JEM. If after 30 days you don’t feel that you’re experiencing progress, we offer a 100% money-back guarantee.

Frequently Asked Questions

The cost of staying where you are is greater than you realize...

—stress, strained relationships, and missed opportunities for real fulfillment. Every day you wait is another day of feeling stuck and unfulfilled.



But the solution is simple:

Join JEM and Learn

How you can feel better, today, easily, without any gimmicks, in a totally sustainable way, that makes perfect sense.

Explore, Discover, Learn, Grow, and Create

better sleep, better health, better relationships, more energy, more creation, more contribution

Train your brain, or remain the same.  

Are you ready to step into joyful excellence? Join JEM!

The cost of staying where you are is greater than you realize...

—stress, strained relationships, and missed opportunities for real fulfillment. Every day you wait is another day of feeling stuck and unfulfilled.



But the solution is simple: Join JEM today and take the first step towards a life of joyful excellence. Your transformation is waiting, and getting started is easier than ever. Sign up now and start thriving!
 

Your dream life is waiting.

Are you ready to step into joyful excellence? Join JEM Today! .
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Certifications

I am verified by Psychology Today as a Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTCDBT, and also Clinical Fellow at the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy

I am verified by Psychology Today as a Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTCDBT, and also as a Clinical Fellow through the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. My Licenses to practice psychotherapy are in Massachusetts and New Mexico.